Rob Kircher spiritual biographer

PREFACE

How I Learned to Let God Drive the Bus is the biography of John Davis, the life of a common yet uncommon man, the sixth child of Joseph and Evelyn Davis, born on November 17, 1954, in Batavia, New York. Baby John had no idea that his epic life adventure had just begun. It wasn't until the fourth grade at St. Joseph's school that the full impact of his siblings' academic reputation hit him full force. They were called the "Dumb Davises," primarily stemming from brother Donnie, who had epilepsy, and sister Betty, with intellectual Disability. 

        However, John was determined to make something of himself even when his parents didn't put much value on education. The knowledge and mentoring John received through the elementary schools and higher education colleges he attended helped build his character, fire his imagination, engrain important lessons, and prepare him for the future. 

Despite the challenges John faced, he exemplified perseverance. The societal labels meant to diminish him only fueled his determination to rise above them. Through his formative years, he embraced each lesson, each obstacle, and every opportunity to grow. The mentoring he received was not just academic; it was a cultivation of character and spirit, fostering a deep-seated resilience that would guide him through life's unpredictable tides.

Adversity was a constant companion, yet John's resolve was unwavering. The financial and personal challenges he encountered only strengthened his spirit and commitment to his faith. A pivotal moment came when he found himself at his lowest ebb, humbled before God, seeking divine guidance. This profound spiritual awakening led to the creation of the "Love Thy Neighbor Foundation Inc." in 2006, symbolizing his commitment to serve and uplift others. By dedicating a portion of his earnings to this cause, John demonstrated his commitment to living a life driven by divine purpose and altruism.

The biography of John Davis is that of an extroverted, impatient, calculated business risk-taker and the introverted victim of raw sensibilities hidden deep within his troubled psychological closet. It's a dramatic account of an unknown rags-to-riches man secretly scared and desperately longing to free himself from damaging, vivid, hurtful memories of being bullied. And how it peels back his misunderstood and falsely perceived personal and social behavior.

The narrative of John's life is not just a recounting of events; it is an inspiring chronicle of overcoming psychological trauma, transcending emotional abuse, and defying the stigma associated with his family's name as the 'Dumb Davises' that still plagues him. Further, it is also his struggle to fight the metaphoric devil within him, the one that persists in generating negative thoughts, impulses, and destructive behaviors. It’s the manifesting conflict he battles between good and evil, the constant struggle with personal shortcomings, weaknesses and tendencies toward harmful actions. As his biography unfolds, memories flood back, each one a vivid piece of the mosaic that is John Davis's life. Most importantly, the divine grace that has steered his course. 

This book is a journey of reflection and gratitude. It is a testimony to the individuals who shaped his life and the values that guide his path. In recounting the moments that defined him, John hopes to inspire others to overcome their challenges and recognize the blessings that often come disguised as trials. This preface serves as a reminder that even in the darkest hours, light can be found when one looks within oneself and at those around them. His story is a beacon of hope and a testament to the transformative power of faith, resilience, and unwavering determination. John hopes that through these pages, readers will find encouragement to persevere, to cherish their loved ones, and to place their trust in a higher power.